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12/01/2009
Coleen Veraldo

I miss you Aunt Virginia and remember you fondly each and every day.

04/05/2009
Jennifer Ackerson Nola

I woke up this morning thinking of you Virginia! Happy Birthday in heaven. Your influence in my life has been strong and impactful. You came along at a time when i was young, vulnerable, and pained. You worked very hard to raise a child who was weak, lost, and inept. The days ahead weren't always perfect, but i know my need and love for you unwavered in its' intensity. There are many things that you have taught me and many ways that I am today that bear your signature. You were a force in everyone's life you touched, you had great enthusiasm for life, and you lived life ferociously. I hope in heaven, as I do on earth, you believe we were special to each other and the meanings that may not always be so obvious everyday, reign and shine through today, and give clarity to how much we meant to each other. Thank you for who you are and were to me and rest in peace in heaven as you execute your 'angel' duties of looking over your children, family, and friends, knowing what you really meant to all of us and seeing how much you are missed. You were funny and giving, generous and determined. You had ZEST, you had laughter and you gave that to us like a gift, an ongoing gift. You taught me so much and even though I fought back it all has meaning and impact 30+ years later. I am strong, good, and adept today and I'd like to acknowledge that you had your part in my becoming who i am. Your loving stepdaughter Jennifer And all my love and sincere condolences to Jimmy/Promila, Wendelin/Maria, Virginia/Tony, Robin/Randy, and all the family and friends who miss and love you!

12/20/2008
Brendan Hoyer

I miss you Aunt Virginia. You were a rock for our family, and a well spring of strength and honesty. You were an inspiration for us all to speak our minds and a glorious reminder of the importance of laughter. And with you went a piece of my heart, it was sweet and strong. Wen, Jim, Virginia Ann, Robin; the memory will be cherished and carried.

12/18/2008
Matt Veraldo

All our lives are significantly poorer now that Aunt Virginia's not in them anymore. Hopefully we can take solace in realizing how much poorer our lives would have been if we'd never had her at all. I personally am thankful for every memory I have of her (even the ones where she was yelling at me), as well knowing I have so many people who share the same grief I do. We'll never be the same without her, but knowing her made us better people. In the end there's no more precious impact a person can make.

12/18/2008
Leonard Gold

There are some people you meet, as you go through life, that one always remembers, and that you think about more than most. Virginia was that type of person. Never afraid to share her views, and never to shy away from a fight for what she thought was right. Her compassion, kindness and good humour will sorely be missed

12/18/2008
Joel T Nowak

Virginia, Wen, Bobin and Jim Those of us who had the glorious opportunity of knowing your mom for so many years now feel a hole where there was always life, laughter, and love. Virginia has had a huge presence in so many of our lives. She always enriched my entire family. To this day I have vivid memories how she ran “the office.” My grandfather, father and uncle all looked with awe at her even while she dressed them down and put them in their place. She was never shy about keeping them in their place, but always with love. When I was a child, it was always a great treat to go to work and see Virginia. No matter how busy she was, she always had the time to entertain us and make us kids feel important. Her honesty, integrity loyalty along with her humor was the hallmark of her beautiful essence. Her soul was that of an angel. Joel T Nowak On behalf of the Nowaks and the Newmans

12/17/2008
Debbie Cairns

Dear Virginia, Wen, Robin & Jim- My love for your mother, my aunt, will last as long as my memory of her, which will be forever. She was dearly loved by me, Guy, Evan and Chelsea. Chelsea will always remember when she learned the words Stupnagle and nincompoop! Love and hugs, Debbie

12/16/2008
Cathy Verstraete

I first met Virginia when she walked into my Dairy Queen with her sister Eileen. They asked for applications and wanted jobs. I did not know how to respond so I said I would call them. Let’s just say my phone never stopped ringing until I gave in. In all my years I have never sent anyone home because of laughter pains. I have never laughed so much in my life. We grew to be great friends and I looked forward to working with them. Everyday was an adventure that I will cherish for the rest of my life. Virginia taught me more than anyone will ever know. I’m so blessed that she is a part of me. Virginia will always be in my heart.

12/16/2008
Debbie Ferguson

It is hard to write this because I don't really want to believe that Virginia is gone. From the first day that she joined us at D.Q., we spent so many hours laughing and telling crazy stories. She endeared herself to everyone there. She had her own style--from all the bumper stickers on her car, to her big, crazy earrings,to her big fluffy winter hat. Everyone will remember her always and especially miss the laughter she brought to us.

12/15/2008
Mary Veraldo

Aunt Virginia was a riot. We are all better people for knowing her, she brought laughter and love to everyone she knew. I will miss her greatly.

12/13/2008
Jimmy Ackerson

I will miss you Virginia, but I am comforted knowing that you are in heaven looking over all of us that were fortunate to have shared in your life. You possessed an extremely potent charisma that included wisdom and wit. At an important time in my life, I was blessed to gain a beautiful step-mom and a bunch of whacky sisters and brothers. I love them all. I recall many great memories including the time that I stopped by the Finch Realty office in Farmingdale. I had borrowed a company truck to transport personal belongings and while pulling up in front of the office, I inadvertently side-swiped a car as I pulled in between two cars without parallel parking. After bringing the incident to your attention and standing before the owner of the car, you lightheartedly said to the owner of the car “that is what you get for owning a piece of s--- car such as that” - rather than consoling the owner in defense of your step-sons negligence. I laughed inside and out for some time afterwards. I thank you for that and so many other pleasant memories. Your heart was huge and mine is better because of your love. Forever with love and appreciation of having you in my life, Jimmy Ackerson

12/13/2008
Michelle Stasko Benasillo

I cannot even begin to express how grateful I am to have had the gift of knowing your Mom and all of you.It was years ago in Bethpage when I stayed at your house one week-end visiting. I was made to feel so comfortable and part of the family so much so I even found myself on the list of chores!! I am not at all surprised to read about your Mom's courage and grace as she took on her incredible health challenge. It always has and always will warm my heart and put a BIG smile on my face when I think of " Aunt Virginia " My prayers are with all of you. Sincerely Michelle Stasko Benasillo

12/12/2008
Joshua Rumsey

I'll miss her care free funny attitude. If you I was having a bad day Aunt Virginia could always make me smile and think about something other then my day. I'll miss her but I know she's a hit where ever she is. In closing, I'm sorry to lose but I know I will see her again one day.

12/12/2008
Aileen Rumsey

Robin, Jimmy, Wen and Virginia, What can I say? Your tribute was beautiful and said it all! I guess as far as family is concerned my tribute will be a little different, because I don’t have a lot of ‘childhood’ memories. I was the baby and really don’t remember much of that time. However, my strongest, most powerful loving memories of your mother came from when I became a woman and a mother. No one could make me feel as beautiful, loving and powerful as your mother. Whenever I was around her I felt fierce, strong, capable yet feminine. She made me feel that I could do anything. Hell, she not only made me think that I could walk on water.. but she made me believe that I did so on a daily basis. She had the ability to make me feel so good about myself. More than I could ever have imagined. Like I could take on the world at any minute.. and win! That was truly her gift. Has there ever been a more powerful, capable, loving woman and mother than your mother? She led by example and loved her children more than life itself. My God and that laugh. Was there anything better than that? Lord could that woman make me laugh! I believe she’s here with me now.. watching as I write .and probably yelling at me for things I have left out., both in her favor and in mine. Tonight, I plan on getting everyone in my house to bed and once everything is in it’s place.. and once I get things quieted down.. I’m having a long talk with her at my kitchen table. I know some might think me crazy.. but I know she’s here.. watching.. listening.. participating., and I know if there is ANYONE in this universe that has crossed over, that will ask the hard questions and get the answers.. it’s her! Even God won’t mess with her! Don’t’ worry.. I’ll take notes. Love , Grace and lots of hugs…..

12/12/2008
Connor Rumsey

My Aunt Virginia was an amazing Aunt and she will forever be in my heart. I still remember the time she lectured on me on why she didn't like steamed broccoli.... Love You Aunt Virginia

12/12/2008
Susan Schneider

I met Virginia at Robin's house on Thanksgiving four years ago, when I was blessed to be included in a great Thanksgiving feast. She truly fit the larger-than-life profile. She was so funny and so giving. I can't remember ever laughing so much. Their mother-daughter relationship was so close and loving. I will remember her always.

12/11/2008
Donna Devlin

Dear Family of Virginia Flatley Giebel, My sincere condolences to your entire family. I did not have the pleasure of meeting your mom, but through her extended family, and seeing pictures of her throughout the years with my dear friend Bobbi, I felt like I knew her. I especially enjoyed the DVD that Peter made for the family, that Bobbi and I watched together. I am so sorry for your loss, but I am sure that she is always watching over all of you, and you can continue to have many conversations with her at any time and any place. Take good care of yourselves, and may God bless and keep you close to each other. Sincerely, Donna Devlin

12/10/2008
Bobbi White

Dearest Robin, Jimmy, Wen and Virg: I love your mom, my Aunt Virginia, more than words can say. When we moved to Florida and I so desperately wanted to be back in New York with my cousins and my aunts, your mom told me I was always welcome. No matter where I was, no matter where life had taken me, your mom always told me I was welcome. I was welcome in Bethpage, at Wen's parties so many years ago, at Jimmy and Promilla's, at Robin's and Randy's, anywhere she thought I might want to be. Aunt Virginia made me feel loved and wanted and, at the same time, she would not hesitate to "smack me upside the head" when I had it coming. Aunt Virginia cared enough to tell the truth and do so in only the way she could. I was fourteen years old and would sit in your mom's bedroom while she was putting her make-up on for work and she would talk to me out of the sides of her eyes. I know it may not sound like much, but it meant the world to me. Anyone who knew your mom, knew that nothing, absolutely nothing, meant more to her than her children. I am so thankful to God for the years I was invited to share with all of you and Aunt Virginia. I can still hear her laughter, her yelling and her madcap scheming. I truly do not know how to tell you how my heart breaks for all of you. I pray that we all stay close as the years go by, for this is what Aunt Virginia would have wanted. I miss my Aunt Virginia so.

12/10/2008
Sharon Hawley

When I first met Virginia, I kept staring at this beautiful woman who reminded me of Gena Rowlands! Since getting to know her, her humor and that laugh of hers will always be with me. Robin, your strength and beauty and humor are the loveliest of gifts from your mom. I know she will always be just around the corner for you all whenever you need her...all my love to all of you, Sharon

12/10/2008
Mindy Perlish

Dear Robin and Family, A beautiful and fitting tribute to a bright, funny and loving woman. I know you guys will miss your mom so much. She was so special and always made a wonderful lasting impression on everyone she met. So sorry for your loss, Mindy

12/09/2008
Peter Guzzardo

I think everyone knows how much your mom meant to me. Thinking back I can't believe how she always made me feel welcome and part of the family even though I would barge in every day throughout my entire adolescent life, sit at the dinner table, and refuse to eat. My mom would always say, "That women is either crazy or a saint to put up with all you kids". God Bless her. Her laugh and smile lives on in me forever.

12/09/2008
Karen Sue

My heartfelt condolences to the family of Virginia. I, too, am a neighbor who lived directly across from her going on 10 years. When the weather was warm and the windows were open, I often heard her raucous, let it all out, belly laugh (she was on the phone) and that would make me smile! I got a kick out of the many bumper stickers on her car! She was so very kind when she brought me a huge ice cream shake to thank me for checking on her when I was a little worried about her one time. Very down to earth, she said it like it was (in her New York accent) no matter what and you would walk away going, yep--got that right and just grin! Many other things will stay in my mind that meant more to me than she ever realized. We'll miss her.

12/09/2008
Pratima Shastri/Clayton

I'll always be grateful for Virginia's life, for the children she raised--for the family who took my "baby" sister into its heart and still holds her there, and welcomed me whenever I was around. I'm especially thankful for Virginia's own sweet baby James, who still makes my sister happy after 23 years of marriage: I see your mom not only in your face, but in your wit, kindness and generosity. To each of you and to the extended family--especially Tony, Maria, Randy, Promila, Ryan, Georgia and Caitlin--my deepest sympathy in your loss . Pratima

12/09/2008
Connie Yekovich

Robin, family, and friends, I would like to offer my deepest condolences and sympathy to your family at this very difficult time. Unfortunately I never had the opportunity to meet Virginia. However, her personality and zest for life, live through Robin in the stories she has shared with me. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Connie Yekovich

12/08/2008
The Shastri Siblings

We offer our sympathy to all of you, praying for the comfort you need. We remember your mum's kindness to our parents and her obvious love for Promila, and are deeply grateful. Pratima, Priya, Prem, Lalitha, and Veena

12/08/2008
Gina Collins

Virginia I think about you so often and I had lost all addresses, e-mails etc. to contact you. I'm so sorry I had to hear from you with such sad news. Your mother sounds like she led a wonderful life and left quite an impact on those she influenced. If any of your wonderful mixture of fiery spiritedness and genuine compassion came from her, I feel as if I can appreciate the contribution she made to the world; and how greatly she will be missed. I'm sure the holidays will be especially difficult for you and your family and you will all be in my prayers. Love and warm thoughts always, Gina

12/07/2008
Margie Paine

I was a neighbor of Virginia's at Willow Ranch; in fact, nextdoor neighbor in the same building. While I didn't know Virginia well, I enjoyed speaking with her from time to time. She always made me laugh. We have missed her these past months and know that your grief will be replaced by warm memories of her. The tribute you wrote gave us all an insight and affirmation of the kind of person she was. My deepest and heartfelt sympathy go to all of you who loved her so deeply.

12/07/2008
Brian G. Andersson

On behalf of the "East Coast Cousins", I add my voice to honor my wonderful cousin Virginia. As her 'favorite Republican (!) we had many spirited conversations. I especially enjoyed her reminiscenses about events of years ago when most of the Flatleys were east of the Hudson. Imagine how thrilled i was when I put all the Flatley girls in touch with the cousins they never knew - especially Al Brown the former Trappist monk. How they all love each other now! I am particularly grateful to her for making every effort fot the cousins to stay in touch - she even had a Facebook page! In her honor i will do my best to keep all the cousins in "the loop" and hopefully get to know everyone better. She'll be thrilled. Edith and Nancy and my brothers and our combined families send all our love.

12/07/2008
Coleen Veraldo

This memorial says it all so eloquently. Your mom always had a smile on her face and laughter in her voice. I will miss her more than words can say. Love, Coleen

12/07/2008
Becky Hummel

Virginia's passing has left a void in our tiny, close knit community. She will always be remembered by all of us for her generosity as a good neighbor and friend. Words cannot express enough our deep appreciation for the ten years we had her as a neighbor. Her humor and left over ice cream bars will be missed!

12/07/2008
SHARON MCGOVERN

Virginia and Ryan, I was so sorry to hear of your loss. I know how much she meant to your family. With my sympathy, Sharon

12/06/2008
Charlene Constant

May beautiful memories give strength at this difficult time.

12/06/2008
Patti Roth

To all of Virginia's family - I did not ever get to meet your mom, but Robin and I have been friends for many years and I can see that Robin must have received much of her strength and humor from her mom. Take care of each other in this difficult time. Love, Patti

12/06/2008
JoAnn Winchell

I am so very sorry for your loss. You will all be in my prayers. Love, JoAnn

12/06/2008
Tim Flatley

Virginia, Wen, Robin, and Jimmy. I cant begin to tell you how sorry I am for your loss. Your mother was an incredibly warm and loving woman. I'm so grateful and proud that she was part of my life. I miss all of you and often think fondly of growing up with "the cousins". I wouldn't trade it for the world! Love to all. Timmy and Family

12/06/2008
Brent Berry

I am so very sorry for your deep loss. Robin had told me of Virginia's brave battle with cancer. It is obvious from your strong and eloquent words that she has left an indelible legacy of strength, courage, and commitment to your family. God be with you all as you grieve and heal.